I know you may think that your stands for women are a bit high and the nappyheadedblogster's are a bit low. The former is true, the latter is not. WhatI have learned, which you will in do time, is that in order to meet Ms. Right, you need to see what the dating pool has to offer. In the same way that you would play a random game of beerpong with anyone who asked, there are girls willing to do the same (theoretically of course.) While I'm not suggesting you sleep with everyone or take everyone on a date, I do have an idea for you, which will also serve the dual purpose of explaining why we cool guys do what we do.
Try going out on a date with a girl who no one really seems to pay much attention to. Even if you don't find her attractive or a potiential wife, take her out. She may be used to a.) never having anyone take her out or b.) only dealing with assholes (i.e. The Nappy headed Cartel) who want to get drunk with her and possibly bang out at the end of the night. What you will effectively do is make her day, and if you still aren't interested in her, you'll make yourself a new female friend...and this is the best therapy of all.
While on the subject of women, it would be completely inappropriate not to blog about sex. Sex in and of itself is a beautiful thing. The sweet release of gargauntian porportion can only serve as a stress reliever and confidence booster. With the advent of condoms, sex really isnt even that dangerous. Don't let people fool you, they don't pop that frequently. I've only popped 2 in my life. Quit worrying about sleeping with and or dating your dream girl, because once you do, you'll realize that a dream girl is just that...a "dream" girl. Case in point: she who shall not be named... Let's call her Ms. X. Ms. X has the Body of a Goddess and face of a 2nd tier angel but her attitute is f**ked it all up...therefore, in the word's of Martin Lawrence..."Get the steppin. You don't gotta go home, but you got to get the hell outa here." Dream girls are better off kept in ones dreams. Remember that.
Lloyd Banks once said , (sorry it wasn't Lil Wayne America), that "I never got the ones I wanted, Just the ones that wanted me..." Yea, newsflash America! that's how it works. Embrace the strategy until you find one that you really like. If not, no harm no foul? You think I wanted to fall for the girls I ended up falling for? Hells bells no. I actually am disgusted by the possibility that a girl will hang with a degenerate such as myself. LOL. More important than this, however, is that any girl who likes you, is one in front of which no fascade is necessary. In the end, there's nothing wrong with hanging with chicks just to hang with chicks. DO IT! YOU WILL HAVE A F**KING BLAST.
Follow my lead America. I know the standards of acceptible decency are different between individuals but I respect that. If I bring you along for the ride (no homo) you have to trust that I wouldn't try to get you to do anything you'd regret. Trust me, I'm a Show-chyatrist.
Live, Love, Amigos (the bar & friends)